Humiliation Hypothesis – III

Dr. B – What have you concluded about video gaming and coasting?

Parent A – My new hypothesis is that it doesn’t cause a lack of motivation, but enables it.

Dr. B – What do you mean by that?

Parent A – We did that experiment of no screens for a week.

Dr. B – I remember.

Parent A – Removing video gaming did not lead to improved effort in school.

Dr. B – Just improved effort with long lost hobbies as I recall.

Parent A – Yeah. It freed up time for other interests that had been neglected.

Dr. B – Like his robot building as I recall. Is he still doing that?

Parent A – Yeah. In fact, I think the robotics cut into video gaming more than anything else.

Dr. B – What’s your conclusion?

Parent A – I don’t think limiting video games and robotics would have any effect on school work.

Dr. B – So, let him play as much video gaming as he wants?

Parent A – Are you kidding? Of course not.

Dr. B – I thought you said video gaming was not the cause of poor effort in school?

Parent A – It’s still a choice of how to spend time. And if he is gaming he is not doing something else.

Dr. B – Like building robots.

Parent A – Or interacting with the family or reading a book or hanging out with friends or helping make dinner or …

Dr. B – I get it. It’s a time eater. The question should be, “What else would he be doing if he weren’t playing video games?”

Author: ahbtest

Dr. Beitel has decades of experience as a therapist, teacher and parent since earning his Ph.D. from the University of Illinois. As a member of the University of Illinois medical school faculty, Dr. Beitel supervises psychiatry residents in training. He is married to "the other Dr. Beitel", a family physician. He and Joyce have two grown children.

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